How many of you remember being a kid
and not having a worry or care in the world?
To be a kid again.

I look at my own children today, as well as many other children, and I see the innocence, the hope, and the way that the simplest things can make them happy. I see a world that is very small in their eyes, to them everything is good, everyone is kind and life, for the most part, is simple. We as parents see to it that they are sheltered from all the ”adult” things that we have to deal with. To them, their world is filled with love and light.
As a child, I can remember this very feeling. To me, my whole world was my parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles as well as cousins. The only thing I had to worry about was whether or not I would be allowed to stay up late on Tuesday nights so I could watch Laverne and Shirley. Other than that, and maybe a few other small things, my life went on without a care in the world. I was innocent, naive and protected I never knew the hardships that went on in the world, with my family or others who were close to me.
As adults we are not so lucky when it comes to worrying. We have a never-ending list that consists of all the things in life that we have to deal with. Things like, money, jobs, family, friends, health, divorce, feuds, and other life events. In addition to this we have the stress of world factors like wars, the economy, the environment, killings of innocent people, attacks from other countries who want us to disappear, whatever encompasses our life. As adults we literally have to worry about it all.
Lately however, our list is getting a lot bigger when it comes to worrying. Today we have to worry about such things as senseless acts of violence, abuse, bullying, terrorism, extreme weather, pollution, earthquakes, asteroids, total apocalypse and the list goes on. Each of these strip the innocence and hope right from a child. As much as you try to shelter your children from the harsh realities of LIFE there comes a time when they are going to be thrown right into the crazy world that we live in.
Kids are tough, they are resilient, they can bounce back from things better than we can, but there are some things that just can’t be undone or avoided. It is these things that scare me today. How do you tell your child that some sick individuals or groups want to hurt them or their parents? How do you explain that their good friend is not coming back because they were killed in some tragic event? How do you explain that life is so hard at times. They are after all, children, who should be innocent, carefree and happy.
My three year old lives in a perfect world because she really doesn’t understand any of the craziness that goes on. But as children get older they begin to see or hear things that go way beyond what most of us had to deal with when we were growing up. The world is now much bigger and outside factors take their toll on them. As I said before their innocence is stripped from them, their hope is dwindling and the outlook on life is getting pretty scary.
These are some crazy times that we live in now and the older I get the more I worry about my children, and the children of the world as a whole. Will life ever get back to being carefree and innocent, we will ever go back to a time when all you had to worry about was a silly TV show. I really don’t think so, but I sure hope that we do.
I think about the future way too often now. Will my kids be alright when I am gone, what will the world be like for them? As much as I would like to, I can’t protect them from everything, nor can I protect myself. .
To be a kid again? – Well it all depends.
Kevin DiMinno
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